AFG, you have proven yourself very smart and resourceful. You know your H better than us. In light of the above, it looks like the right way for you.
You're giving him what he wants. He's lazy and gutless. This is why he brought the whore into your house while you were sleeping in the next room. He expects YOU to do the legwork.
I'm sad to see the SOB getting what he wants, and in the easiest, most convenient way for him. He's not as dumb as he looks.
((((AFG)))) Get what you need. I don't have any 2x4's for you, just moral support.
((((((Gno)))))) I hate this too Gno. It makes me crazy that he has done all he has and I still have to be the one to clean up. I just don't think I have the energy, nor the time left to give to MAKE him deal with this. I just want it done and over with now at this point.
Another reason why I wanted him to know that I know his secret. In the past, it has always forced him to come to the real terms of what he has done when he knew that I had found out, and I expected it to be the same now. But, alas, I will subside on that for now on the advice of all you more than generous and kind folks who even care enough about me in the virtual world to help me and walk me through my sitch right now. I appreciate it so very, very much.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
