Think OW is here in my house right now!

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CityGirl - No-fault state here...don't know which is worse? LOL.

Kimmie - I know that I am fully entitled to the money as half mine. I am just trying to prevent further complications with him making the move of opening a new account on his own and me not having any access to the marital funds without having to go through the legal system.

And yes, I have been having trouble with thinking that I am an equal partner when it comes to the money stuff. I gave him the power in that regard because that's what he thinks now too. It's "his" money because he makes it and not ours jointly in the marriage. Just another faction and area in where I had lost a large part of my self-respect and self-value in this marriage. Mostly also from guilt that I felt about the debt I had gotten into and my spending habits throughout our marriage as well.