Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

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SD,
I have been reading along but have not posted yet. I have been in your sitch returning from a deployment and having this happen. I know that it is difficult. You have to keep your emotions in check. I did not and was a wreck for a long, long time. If you can steel yourself around the wife you will be better off. Your emotions will not serve you well--I think I lost 10 pounds in 2 weeks after I got home and couldn't sleep for a while. I know it is difficult to not think about what your wife and OM have done--try your best to fill your time doing something constructive or this will consume you. Have a good time with you boys and don't let your wife ruin that.