One more thing... in an ideal world the convo will go as above... but we all know that we don't live in one. Keep the conversation to "What AFG wants" without giving a hint that you're gearing up for war.

When your H hears you've already been to see a L he's going to interpret it as an "act of war." Your goal is to defuse the situation as much as possible.

And if there is one lady who's opinion on legal matters I respect it's CityGirl.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
but you have such a position of power here and the best way to use it is to give him NO INFO!

Hey CG, if I've not told you this before... RESPECT.

Last edited by Gnosis; 12/13/09 06:16 PM.

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