Think OW is here in my house right now!

[aflowergurlie]

Ok, thought about it more - I will hang onto letter and use later if needed. I will present him with this instead -

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Dear H –

I have withdrawn $1,000 from the joint checking account for the sole purpose of retaining legal counsel.

I am willing to set up a meeting with you to discuss the terms of our divorce settlement agreement.

AFG
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Better to listen to the wise counsel of those who have already tread this path. Thanks for all your input!