I essentially told my attny that I was not going to budge on my stance and I was fully prepared to go to trial and if we did go to trial it would not have been just my H and I in the courtroom. Once that info was passed to my H magically the signed agreement appeared.
And that my dear was an ACE MOVE! Contrary to popular belief opposing council does talk to each other. They make deals between each other to make their own lives easier.
I can GUARANTEE you that when XH's lawyer (let's call him Jack) spoke to your L the response was: "Jack, I wish there was a way we could work things out, but this girl is hellbent dude. There's no negotiating with her, even if I tried. She's even prepared to go to trial. And we both know your guy doesn't have much of a leg to stand on. Advise your client its in his best interest to take the deal."
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
