Think OW is here in my house right now!

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Hi CityGirl! Thanks so much for sharing that info. Very helpful.

I essentially told my attny that I was not going to budge on my stance and I was fully prepared to go to trial and if we did go to trial it would not have been just my H and I in the courtroom. Once that info was passed to my H magically the signed agreement appeared.

Good for you! I am fully prepared to do this as well.

Your H did not ask you if he could take out money to fund his affair so I am not sure (unless your legal counsel has advised you otherwise) why you would need to inform him of your withdrawal for a retainer. Plus, you should be asking him to pay all your legal fees anyhow IMO.

The funds came from the joint checking account which I don't use. H has been the only one using that account, so essentially he is paying for it. If he should choose to go contested later on then I will ask that he reimburse any legal fees should I have to pay them.