#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[mishka422]

((((((Maria)))))))

I'm glad it's sunny for you there today. Much better to have sunshine on a sad day than to have the weather match your mood. It kind of strikes a balance.

WOW! Your friend put that in perspective didn't she? She's right. His feelings died, he identifies himself as your H and your kid's dad...a family man. Without you that makes him what? A dad, yes. Not a family man though. Most likely in his mind a family only occurs when there are two parents involved. I'm not saying that is correct (I'd like to think that Marc and I are a whole family in ourselves) but just that he can only see it that way. He will have to work his way through that all by himself. I hope he can for your children's sake.

You will build yourself up further into the beautiful, strong, capable woman we all know you are. This sadness will slowly go away after a season and you will inevitably bloom into a rose! You know, beautiful, but with thorns that will warn away those that try to harm you!