P, I thought you meant "we" as in you and your wife.

Do you read other infidelity forums? The WS act like aliens.They are cold. They do not act like their old selves. EVERY WS IS LIKE THIS WHILE IN THE FOG!

Truth is, she may just give up on contacting you for awhile... but from what I read it's not permanent. They tend to reach out for some reason. The LBS is better off assuming they won't hear from the WAS again so they can detach and get used to not expecting to hear anything.

Do you want hope or to move on? I just have a feeling that people have a harder time moving on if they still hold onto hope.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004