Good point Sadgirl.

I've learned that I can't control his anger no matter what. Sometimes he gets angry over nothing, sometimes he doesn't get angry when I think he will. Its crazy and I have yet to figure it out.

Gucci ,this whole "act as if" thing is really working. I feel I did a good job yesterday in our first conversation. Good enough that it got the man wondering hence why he called back a second time...for no reason at all. Then my sis and I decided to have a lazy night on the couch, and who walks in at 11? H. Weird. The last two night he felt no reason to come home earlier than 1:30am, but last night his wife was "acting as if" she didn't care and look who struts in early. Ha!

He came downstairs grabbed a blanket, covered me up and went upstairs to watch hockey highlights. About an hour later, comes down says good night to us and goes to bed.

He's been gone to work since 6am this morning.

I told you I may need step by step help. What's my plan of action today? He won't be home until 730 from work. Thanks!


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14