Hugs to you on the settlement papers... we are doing that this week too.
The good news is there is a better life for us out there. Even if it's with no one... I choose that over someone who treats me the way STBXH did any day.
Have fun and check in and let us know.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too