It's very difficult when there are children involved. You know your h better than anyone, so you will know how to set your boundaries. Just keep in mind, when discussing them w/him, stay calm, keep your voice even and calm. No finger pointing and do not raise the issue of the ow unless you have to.
It will get easier as you travel the mlc road.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
