I get such inspiration reading your posts AFG. the part about squandering assets or spending funds for an outside party, well my h is doing that for his parents.

so that will be another tool in my bag to nail my h if needed.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline