Thx Antlers. That is so true... the separation/divorce situation is much more personal to us, of course, but it will increase our empathy to others going thru this sitch in the future. At least it will for me.

Will continue to turn the pain and anger over to God, along with the negativism, second guessing, and all the rest. It really is in God's hands.

My mom sent out Christmas cards, first year without Dad, and she wrote:

I miss --- dearly but am doing well and taking life a day at a time. Only our dear Lord has the answers for our lives.


If she can do it, after 57 years with the same spouse, I guess we can too! smile