Thankfully, no, the OW is in VA. It gets to me that he has not called his sons once in a week, and yet I am sure he talks to her every day, probably several times a day. Most of the time I can be pretty lovingly detached, but that is really getting under my skin. But at least she isn't there with him.
I went all day yesterday without a cigarette, so I'm starting day two. Wish me luck! I've been smoking for nine years, but I am hopeful I can quit. No, I don't really have friends here. A couple of preschool moms are nice enough to me, but whenever I try to make plans to get together they are mysteriously busy, or say they'll come but then don't show up. So I keep in touch with some old friends out of town and am kind of biding my time until I move. I do occasionally get my parents to babysit, but it's not as great as it sounds. I always appreciate their help, but mostly I am on my own.
I'm kind of tabling the idea about exposing the OW for right now. After the holidays when I get moved then I'll rework my strategy. I'm also going to try gathering more evidence for now. Does anyone know if there is a way to get all the text messages my H's cell phone sends? The thing is, being military this A could destroy his career. I won't do that now because it would be cutting off my nose to spite my face - he's the sole provider right now. But I'd like to have the information as insurance.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
I always appreciate their help, but mostly I am on my own.
