I have been reading and have now read divorce busting and the divorce remedy.
given the time i have spent i have decided to give my wife what she told me she wanted last month for christmas.
A divorce.
nb1, I understand completely where you are at. Your emotions right now are running around and around and around in your head.
What can I do to stop this?
What can I do to get W back?
What can I do to stop feeling like this?
We've all been there mate. You need to slow down a little and take a huge deep breath.
Life is too short for this stuff. Slow down. I don't expect you to believe me as when I was in your shoes, it took me a while to listen too.
First thing to ask yourself is, what do YOU want? Forget what W wants, what do YOU want?
My guess is you are going down the road that I was going down - to stop the pain I am going to get a D as that will finally free me of it. You're probably also getting good advice from friends and family on this too? They are no doubt telling you to get a D? Right? Don't fool yourself. A D is NOT the answer.
Slow down. Deep breath. What do YOU want?
Last edited by P17; 12/13/0903:10 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
