Anyway, I got a little fired up but I've been waiting to run into him for a long time. What a scumbag. At least I didn't take his head off with a golf club.
As Saffie said, we're supposed to say you shouldn't have done that, it won't get you anywhere but ending up in jail, etc.
I'm going to break that rule though. I think you were very calm, composed and strong. I admire what you did.
If I were in your shoes, I would actually like to think I#d have done the same thing. It's too easy to take a golf club to his head.
I come from one of the 'roughest' cities in Scotland and have had more than a few scrapes in my time. I'm not a violent or aggressive but the guys that scare me most are the ones who are calm and collected when they are in your face. They have a confidence that no golf club can match. That's why he was scared.
My question though is why the h*ll did XW think it was okay to bring the OM to your house? If we excuse the fact she is clearly in need of some common sense or appropriate boundaries in her head, what did she actually expect to happen?
You know she did this to rile you, don't you? I think, judging from her text message response that she thought you'd be all weak, accepting and scared of the OM. Nice 180 bud
You did well. You still have a gold club and he still has his head. I bet you feel good!
Now, I will accept whatever politically correct wrath is to befall my head.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
