Are you at all worried about your safety? He sounds pretty angry to me, and like he is more interested in destroying evidence than owning up to his actions. What about having a third party observer on the conversation? Or some other protection for your safety?
Never say never but I really don't think I am in any physical danger. But H is very vindictive and I am afraid of what he may be planning. He likes getting revenge on people who cross him.
Then it would not surprise me if he tries to convince you you are crazy/don't really know what's going on/you're just wrong. Don't budge. He will test you at your weak points, and if you show him any, he will try to exploit it.
