Thanks for the advice and the insight into his life.
I sometimes loose my patience with him (in my head) because I lose the journey he is on.
Your insight into his current life is very helpful and has allowed me to detach again after our meal on Friday when OW kept texting him. He only has an hour or two with his children per week if their lucky and I was iritated by her texting him after they hadn't seen him for over 2 weeks. I know understand why he keeps replying to her to appease her!
Do I set a boundary around answering text to her whilst he is with his children or is that impossible as it is out of my control?
