a simple question for me is...

ok, WHERE do i start? as far as DB goes?

should i assume there may be ow, as this is such a big part of mlc?

i just want to back off...if he feels suffocated and trapped, and those are his reasons for wanting d, that would be where to start right?

I just have a hard,very hard time believing a d is truly what he wants. i believe what he wants is to have some time to himself to enjoy the things he loves in life...fishing, hunting...a beer with the guys.

as i stated b4, these were MY issues...i wanted to do EVERYTHING with him.no matter what it was or who it was with...
I have overcome this...completely.

i feel he wont give us a chance because he doesnt believe i am capable of it...however he also isnt willing to spendmuch time at all with me, without the girls. this make it extremely hard to show my actions...or reactions to things in general.

he is also quite guilty of picking me apart for breathing wrong...


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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