When he visits the children H makes lots of plans and promises only to subsequently forget them completley or change them without letting them or me know. This includes changing days he is coming to visit etc.
He had arranged with the children to spend christmas day at home. This plan has changed 3 times as OW got involved and controlled his contact. On Friday night he told D 19 that the next time he would see her MIGHT be christmas day when he brought the presents over. The same evening he told my mother he was spending the morning here. He hasn't told S15 and 13 the potential change in plan, which has been happening with increasing regularity. He was spending the morning here, which the children are expecting.
Do I stop this toing and froing by suggesting he doesn't come christmas day at all or is this a step to far on my part?
