I'm sure those of you who have followed my sitch from the beginning would notice that my H turns allll his feelings into anger at first. So that's what I mean. He gets angry when he's sad, mad, hurt...etc. So its hard to deal with things with him, cause its anger I'm facing...just fyi.
One thing you should have learned from these fine folks is, his anger is NOT yoru problem.
I was freaked about about contacting the AG for CS, but I realized that I couldn't be scared of my H getting angry. I HAD to do it for my kids. I did it, and then calmly told him to expect to be subpoenaed into court for a wage attachment. Surprisingly, he didn't get outwardly angry. I'm sure he's p!ssed off, but all he said was okay and asked if I knew how much they would be taking.
Let him get angry. YOU were angry when he left you, but I'll bet he didn't give two sh!ts about YOUR anger.
