So there is certain things I'm told to say or do. And with a typical human being it may work, but with my H it just backfires, cause he doesn't react to things the way most people would.
This is exactly my problem. Everytime I read Gno's advice to you, I think that would never work on my H. I could probably be walking around with another man, and my H wouldn't be affected. He claims he is not the jealous type. I think he'd only react to another man around the kids, and that's only because he wouldn't want me exposing them to some random guy.
He has never expressed any jealousy, so I doubt he is just saying it. However, I have never tested him.
For me, I've realized that I have to get on with my life. I find thinking about all those wonderful men out there I am obviously free to enjoy to be very helpful. Sometimes I want my H back, and sometimes I don't. Right now, I can't find any reasons why he enhances my life.
As far as your H goes, it sort of seems like he came back because the kids were cramping his style. He can come and go as he pleases, because you are there to watch them. Your H strikes me as the jealous type, follow Gno's advice. You might think it won't work for you, but I have a feeling in your case, it will.
Sometimes I want my H back, and sometimes I don't. Right now, I can't find any reasons why he enhances my life.
