It is impossible to prevent these thoughts and this pain as everything is unfolding so traumatically.
It IS possible to prevent yourself from losing control in front of your kids and your wife. Lose it when you're by yourself. Rant and lament in your posts here. Break down in front of a close friend or even a stranger. But you CAN keep it together and follow the advice you've been getting when it really counts. Take it from everyone here, the sooner you get yourself under control the better your odds of getting the entire situation under control will be, even if the results you want come VERY slowly.
Age: 28 Wife's Age: 28 Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off) Married: Less than one year Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011
