my h is one of 6 children and he is the one despite having a wife d2 and another child on the way, she clings to him like he's her surrogate husband.

it's not all on her, it's on him, i think he's comfortable being their saving grace, go to son despite it causing stress and fights between us.

it was all good when i went with what she wanted and did things for her but as soon as i stood up to her it was jstar is not teh woman for you son. she's trying to kill the baby's she's pregnant with.

not even knowing the self guilt that i had for having a miscarriage, now i got the mil from h$#$ whispering that in his ears, she even said that about my pregnancy now. h says oh no i told her you inject medication every day to keep the baby alive, but i will never be good enough for her son until he stands up to her and puts me before them. that i will never see.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline