I have not contacted any lawyers yet but after this afternoon I was thinking I probably should have. I am still shocked and can't believe that I am in this situation. This really really sucks!!!! Don't think I will have time to myself tomorrow to call around and there will be no way I will be able to make any appts for Mon. DD4's xmas concert, parents coming over and afternoon specialist appt I have been waiting to see for months.
I really hope it does not get nasty sunday. Depending on what he says, and if I need to diffuse the situation, I was going to suggest we should consider setting up a separation agreement and that we both take a few days to decide what we want ie. custody/division of property/etc... and then we can go from there.
