It is the attitude I have, but I don't know how to execute it if I'm limiting my contact with and u don't know if she is open to me trying to. Actually, I know she isn't and she's probably trying to stay clear so I won't.
Also, she originally chased me cause I made her laugh and she thought I would be good for her. She told me this years ago. I had a girlfriend when she told me her feelings and I said I couldn't do anything as I had a girlfriend. I later dropped my girlfriend and then started seeing her.