Hi undefeated. Is the OW in AZ, with him? I think that you are wise to stop saying I love you. Right now, its just going to be damaging.
And congrats on trying to quit smoking, that will be a good accomplishment for you. Do you have friends where you are? It seems like living with your parents, you have babysitters???
I dont know about exposing OW to her family... Im just not sure about that one, but Im usually pro exposure.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...