H has been very busy this morning when I was out with kids.

1. Looked at my bank statements and left them out (he has always been free to view them but has never shown interest until now)

2. DR book was laying out on bed – usually I have my books all piled up under the kleenex box in the corner of the bed against wall

3. Deleted emails out of my account (the incriminating ones I forwarded to myself from his hotmail account)

4. Deleted password protected word document that I used partly as a journal

5. Located ALL MY HARD COPIES of intel from 2 locations. mad Have to admit they were not really hidden as well as I could have.
Man, was I naive! Should have taped them to the back of a picture on the wall or something.
And it included letters/emails from our break up in 2001.

Luckily, I had made some screenprints of my previously discovered intel and saved them in an inconspicious folder on my computer. Promptly, emailed them to my GF who knows everything so she has a copy. Then I logged on to my internet service providers website and was still able to access those emails from there. So again, emailed to GF and to myself. Put them in another email folder that is not high vis but easily accesible until I can print them again. I don't have all my evidence back but I do have some.

I was livid when I realized he had my hard copies. I am glad he was not home. I still have not confronted him about it. Not sure if I should or not? What would be the point? I think I like the idea that he feels like he is safer now that he has “cleaned up house”.

So he must know how I found out now and he knows what I know.

I think I need to prepare for cat5 sh!tstorm tomorrow night.
He was talking to his sister and I hear him oversay “It will be settled by tomorrow night.”

He asked DDs to go out for dinner with him tonight. DD4 said she rather have take out.
So he picks up something, sets the table (even a spot for me), gets the kids food out, and cleans up. WTF? Why did he never do that BEFORE not that it really matters now?

I am freaking about tomorrow as I don't know what to expect.

Me: 42, H: 43
Daughters: 7,5
Together: 16 Married: 9
Jan 2010- Piecing
Fen 2013 ????