That one really hit me hard and continues to hit hard to this moment. Such a lack of emotion in her delivery. I was kinda thinking that it indicated that she felt resentful to have to be with me.
And you may be entirely correct. Since you could see her face and hear her voice, you may be able to tell more about it.
A year is a long time. I wonder what the hold up is for them moving on? That is why I wondered if OM had cold feet and why W was acting like she was.
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I know that my Nice Guy tendencies are one of the things that has pushed her away from me and even though it is not the best DB approach, I was hoping that it would at least come across as a 180 for me to show her that I am willing to stand up for myself. At any rate, it doesn't appear to be working after two tries so maybe there is no cheese in this tunnel either...
Don't give up yet.....and for sure don't go back to Mr. Nice Guy b/c it just does not work in WAW A's.
My suggestion is to spend more time doing what you enjoy doing and develop a life for yourself-- to the point you can be okay without her in your life. Doing that, will help you turn lose of the rope you have tied to her, and will aide in keeping you from looking in a not-so-attractive light.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
