Thanks Coach. Dbag is separated from his wife, and they are headed towards divorce. you still think she would want to know? Or that it would matter? She's not even in their house anymore.
I don't think I'd expose to wife's work AFTER a divorce. I feel like the reason to do it prior to that is to accelerate the discomfort they both feel, and the natural consequences (both may get fired). I'm just worried about giving my wife ANYthing to lean on as an excuse to go full steam ahead. As it is now, I've "lovingly" detached. She can't say anything bad about me. Who knows.
