H just told me last night that he's going to have the coming weekend away! I asked with whom he's going but he dared not answer. I told him calmly that I can't & won't stopped him from going but he's showing no respect for me and our M (our 15th anniversary is on the 23rd). He then asked me to have a drink but I refused saying that I had nothing to talk to him at the moment (he's going to say something whenever he suggested a drink & in fact he dropped the bomb while we were having a drink)! I headed back home with him following later. I am really feeling so proud of myself as I stay calm all the way and even asked him to go to bed first while I finished the house chores as he had to get up real early this morning for a company outing.
I must say that I'm doing pretty well on detachment in the past couple of days. In fact, the OW is bringing her 2 kids to the outing today but I don't really care about them spending the day together. I'm going to have lunch w/mom & sisters later on and may be do a bit of shopping. Yeah!
BTW, thank you so much for the input on boundaries. Will think over it and hopefully come up with some strategies soon.
