Quick question to all that came up for me when I was reading another thread:
I've been holding back on doing two things since I found out about this affair three months ago:
1. exposing it to my wife's work (her boss, and her dbag lover's boss)
2. exposing it (or simply announcing it) to her dbag's wife
I've held off because I'm not completely certain that either are the best thing to do. However, when I read Puppy's posts (and story) I feel an urge to do that also.
How would you recommend I differentiate between knowing if and when to do it? Part of me wants to (it will certainly cause problems, and allow my wife to cast me as the a-hole and vengeful husband, could push her away permanently?) and part of me doesn't obviously, since I haven't. It just feels like it's nagging at me. Goes away, then pops up. And tonight (tomorrow may be different) it is annoying me.
