a He still initiates conversation and will say, "you wanna get something to eat"**...should I say "you go ahead?" A simple, sincere, "No thank you." should cover it nicely, benignly and sufficiently.
as the my kids say, "FML" (f*ck my life)
Or, " Fulfill My Life."
**Why, oh why do so many men males word things that way? Like, "Please decide for us; it's up to you."
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Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac