Who are you going to expose the affair to? Her and your parents and both families know plus she is going out in public with the OM. Who else needs to know?
You need to state a boundary - everybody seems OK with your wife having a affair.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
