Daybyday, p17 IS RIGHT ON. 100% From what I know about behavior (from my grad study in college) there is an extinction burst that occurs when on person changes their response to another for an extended amount of time. What this means is that the person on the receiving end (your WH) will explode or TEST your limits in an aggressive way, then subside.
(it is seen when the parent starts t reinforce consequences to their kids when thwy haven't received them before-the kids test and test, throw a huge temper tantrum and then give in.)
On the outside looking in, WH's behavior is retaliatory, angry, nasty, [censored], DESPERATE! Like P17 said, he is most likely punishing you with D. But there is no way he could get your kids full time! Hello?! you didnt leave, he did! You have been an excellent mom and provided a stable home for them--do not worry about this.
In fact, the more I think about his reaction, the more obvious is that he is desperate and pissed...is he threatened? Is there a chance OW could go back to her H?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
