P17, you would be proud of me. i have sent him the following reply: " that's good so. We won't be here anyway x-mas eve.If you want to take them Stephens Day I have no problem as I am planning to go out."
I would have sent the text like this (and I'm not great about these so forgive me):
"Okay."
I would have left the rest out. If you had to have him babysit on Stephens Day then I would have asked him. By the sounds of things you didn't need him though.
Don't tell him anything you are doing. I know it's very tempting to do so, and we've all done it. The imagination does a much better job of you GALing than you will.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
I would have left the rest out. If you had to have him babysit on Stephens Day then I would have asked him. By the sounds of things you didn't need him though.