Haha, GIMA, stop by my latest post in Surviving the big d.
I am holding up, in the face of some ridiculous stuff. Since you may be heading down the same road I am, you can use my last couple months as a roadmap for things to watch out for, and things not to do..
I will do the same.
And re: your "sign off", I've always believed that pain becomes suffering only when we don't accept it.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac