My biggest fear about leaving baby with a sitter (even d18) is that exh will want to stay with her if I chose to go somewhere. I can't have that. It will turn into a huge battle and fight.

I'm going tonight. Figures the one and only night I go anywhere its in the middle of a freaking rain storm.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!