Also know this. When you don't respond, he will come back with another, and another, and another text message or email. He will keep going and he will get nastier and more threatening with each one (probably start calling you a bad mother yada yada yada) - whatever he puts in those messages he knows will push your buttons. He does it for this exact reason. He will push every single button until he get;s a response, then he has the power back.
Trick is, see it for what it is (a power game), laugh at it and remember this - he can't win the game if you're not playing. Don't play the game.
He'll keep escalating it until what? If I stay strong the whole time and don't respond or play his game, then what will happen? He'll explode with anger? I have read other sitches where they get nastier and nastier, but haven't read if it ends and what the end is. He's so dead set on a D. I don't think he'll give up.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
