I texted WH today to see how we work out X-Mas and he texted that he will be in Ireland only late 23rd until 27th afternoon and that he will spend X-Mas morning in his parents house instead of seeing his kids - he will come by in the afternoon.I suppose if he can't even bring himself to spend X-Mas morning here with his kids I'd say there is no hope for our marriage anymore.
You have two options as far as I can see it:
1. Ask him why he isn't spending xmas morning with the kids.
2. Say, 'thats fine' and be cool about it. Then when he comes around show him all the photos you took of the kids opening their presents to show him what he missed.
Bear in mind HE will miss those things because of HIS decision. You can't make him come over. His children, and his guilt will do a much better job on his conscience than you ever will.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
