Pls help--confused and fearful

[P17]

P17, I did respond but did via email.

Here's what I said:

And as for knowing why you are doing that, NO, I do not and you have no right to do that anyway."

2x4 - you played right into his hands. This is what he wanted you to do - get angry. Now he has control back.

Bear in mind he has every right to do what he wants, in his head. The law may say otherwise but he still can exercise the his right to not pay you. If he does, like his A, his right / action has a consequence.

IGNORE EVERY SINGLE CONTACT FROM HIM UNTIL YOU COME BACK HERE FOR ADVICE. DO NOT ACT ON YOUR EMOTIONS.

I should have waited and read your post. Thanks so much for your input P17. You always have such good advice. It's been hard for me to see clearly.

We all understand exactly where you are at. We've been there. Don't think you're any different to any of us - you're not!

I see now that he is trying to get control of the sitch and playing a power game. I shouldn't have played... but hopefully what I wrote wasn't too bad for me.

That is exactly what he is doing. 100%. He has no control over his life at the moment. The only thing he can control, with you, is the finances. That is why he is doing this. Nothing else. He is trying to punish you, the only way he knows how, for not playing HIS game.

The man is an alien! Can't believe he's doing this to us right before Christmas and hurting our kids this way.

That is WHY he is doing it. To cause the most amount of hurt.

He is so different. This person I want out of my life forever. He's not my husband.

Most WAS get kidnapped by the little green men. I don't want W back either, at least not the one she is now.

He is so different because - guilt and hurt.