Knew I could count on a post from you too newmama!
I live in a no-fault state too. I do have a long term marriage on my side for a good amount of alimony though. And he'll have to pay for my schooling to get back into the workforce since I've been a SAHM for over 12 yrs.
I do know that it is BS from WAH about his message. He's spinning out of control. He's the one that got OW's ex into my life! OW's ex is a pain in the @ss to them and they deserve it. He will have to deal with him the whole while he is with OW. He harasses his ex constantly. And I don't think things are so great at work, but I'm just speculating.
((newmama)) Thanks for your support!!
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10