I figure the dark has hurt her. I took care of my wife. I cooked , cleaned and let her be rather independent. But we always spent time together. If we could not it was emails and phone calls.

So me being dark stopped many emotional needs that she needs. So she contacts me now every 3 weeks. A little sweet with a little knife in the heart and twist it. "You don't sound different, I've learned the game."

I figure the next round of contact from her will be once more before xmas. Her dad and I are going out for dinner and a hockey game on his birthday. So there should be a tough stance call / email. Plus some talk to mutural friends how I am being immuture.

Then silence for a few days. Followed by some semi nice email on needing something or other.

Then nothing for a few weeks.

A little birdy told me that the adultry is not all cracked up to how she thought it would turn out. No plan B at all. Words have been mentioned that I have a girlfriend... smile ( I do not ) But I am playing it up that I am interested in someone. I keep two names consistant depending on who I talk to. As I know it will get back and be conflicting.... smile Makes it sound more word of mouth and rumourish.

Ahhh the games we play.