"You texted me that you are "cancelling my paychecks until further notice". Do you know that that is abandonment? You cannot abandon your children financially, there will be serious legal consequences for you if you do that. I believe you have a lawyer and should verify with her if you should do that.
And as for knowing why you are doing that, NO, I do not and you have no right to do that anyway." I should have waited and read your post. Thanks so much for your input P17. You always have such good advice. It's been hard for me to see clearly. I see now that he is trying to get control of the sitch and playing a power game. I shouldn't have played... but hopefully what I wrote wasn't too bad for me.
The man is an alien! Can't believe he's doing this to us right before Christmas and hurting our kids this way. He is so different. This person I want out of my life forever. He's not my husband.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
Thanks so much for your input P17. You always have such good advice. It's been hard for me to see clearly. I see now that he is trying to get control of the sitch and playing a power game. I shouldn't have played... but hopefully what I wrote wasn't too bad for me. 
