Pls help--confused and fearful

[newmama]

Daybyday, that is bullshit! I am not a lawyer and still know, common sense wise, that he CANNOT stop supporting you! So he is abandoning his kids? Even if he temporarily stopped supporting you, when you get the law on your side, he will definitely pay! I live in a no fault state, but hopefully you don't and can use infidelity as grounds for divorce. Even in my state, the WAS has to pay alimony for a year if the LBS has been unemployed or a stay at home spouse.

I am surprised and pleased that you signed your post with a smiley face. I hope this means that you know it is complete BS as well! Please keep us updated.

(BTW I am glad you were inspired by the movie...even if the two of you don't work out, you can see an option where you will be THRIVING in a new life.)

Like P17 said, DO NOT RESPOND. Who gives a flying F who you talked to? HE was the one who made this grave mistake! ((((Daybyday))) Use your anger to stay strong, keep the higher ground like you have been, and still make it a point to celebrate the holidays in light of all this. IN HIS FACE!!!!Ha!