well ex phoned regards seeing son at christmas, said he really wants to see him xmas morning, I asked how he was going to get round the sitch, his reply he didnt know, so I took the plunge and told him I didnt have a problem with him coming into my home and spending an hour or so with son and I would make myself scarce, his reply was, oh no no no no I am not doing that, but son is more than welcome to come spend an hour at our place, so as I knew son wouldnt swallow that one either I said I would leave it with him. After speaking to son about it he said he is definately not going to their place and doesnt want any hassle about it, so i texted ex and asked if he thought it better if he saw son either xmas eve or boxing day as then there would be places open where they could go, he replied if thats wot son wants. so I put it on offer and was turned down which in a way I fully expected but again it is ex's loss, he wont be seeing his aunt and neither his son on xmas day, he is at the full discretion of his wifey and her family and his dont matter, what next oh well I will enjoy my day with my son and my family, he wont be in my head, woooopeeee
