I let her know my concerns. She tried to change the subject by saying she is strict with the kids in that they have to finish a makeup day of homework each morning otherwise they dont get to swim. I think she was trying to justify that the homework was their baby sitter. I suppose if it happens again, I will just have the kids or myself call the hotel front desk to express their concern.
I did not make alternate plans. I finished some house work and am heading out to golf practice, shopping and a workout. The emails are flowing between various nice and successful ladies and I should meetup with some of them soon.