And remember, just like him you are an adult. You can choose who to talk to. He's scared of you talking to OW's H as you'll find out more about their little secrets.
He is no longer going to support you and the kids financially because you spoke to somebody else?
He's playing a power game. Beat him at it by not playing.
Remember. He's not increasing D pressure. He's trying to wrestle control of the situation by doing the one and only thing he has control over, the finances. As you have no control over that, or him, let him do what he wants.
Step 1 - Make provision. See a lawyer. Know your rights. Get support for you and the kids.
Step 2 - Fight for the M (if you still want to do that).
Last edited by P17; 12/12/0910:27 PM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
