I spoke with the church music director (he is not a pastor, my mistake) and he said that they absolutely should not play in the concert together. As it turns out, what he had been told by the OM was not the entire truth, imagine that. So W is out of the show, and our arrangement stays intact.
Spent the night at the apartment and called a close friend to let him in on the situation. I'm mentally and emotionally fine, but the situation sucks. I don't like being away from my family, and I hate living in an apartment where you can hear every footstep of the upstairs neighbor. Oh well, strength and honor...
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09